My Body, My Shape, My Size, My Pride
Don't talk down on me because am fat (am not so fat though) just leave me to myself. The man in love with me at the moment loves my size (I actually love it more). It annoys me a lot when people just walk up to me and say *OROBO* (I give this look of but ki ni eleyi n so nah?) There are better ways to tell me to watch my weight oo, don't wake up one morning and tell me am fat.
Some people don't even know there is an after effect to these things and they just say whatever and move on. I once had an encounter with a friend's friend (you needed to see this brother oo, he looked very unkept), and it was an experience that I won't forget soon. I got introduced to this guy by my friend (I won't mention her name so don't bother) cause she was trying to get me a boyfriend and decided to hook me up with her old time friend (rada rada re oo).
If there is anything I learnt from Covenant University it is how to give cute side hugs (full hug in public could get you into the SDC bus... Only CU students and graduates can relate sha); so I gave this uncle a side hug and his first comment was "but Oyin, are you scared to hug me?" I said no (The question irritated me but I kept my cool). Then as if he was on a codeine diet, he went ahead to spoil everything when he said "is it because of your size?" and I smiled and said "what is wrong with my size?" (nah the response burst my head pass). I was ready to give him hot hot when he said "but you are fat Oyin, Orobo like you"(haaaa, were re oo). I looked and smiled and my response was simple and precise. Oga, before you start insulting fat and pretty ladies like me, I think you should look at yourself and know where you got it wrong because it is very obvious you have missed it in life (jaw dropped). I turned to my friend and told her, babes I respect you a lot if not .............. (I end am there make I fit win the matter nah) and immediately left the venue.
Away from gist now, am not criticising anyone please don't get me wrong but my body, shape and size remains my pride. The way I look at the moment shouldn't be your headache instead advice me to stay healthy. Do you know it is possible to use the gym daily and still be chubby but physically fit? (some people don't know) In all, I think we should all try not to intimidate people with their body size or shape.
Am plus sized am not fat, am beautiful and I got a banging body so if you think have added too much weight in recent times be polite about your approach (no be you dey help me live my life nah) and you would be surprise I would listen to your advice, The one that weakens me is when a guy is trying to woo a lady and he says babe, I like you so much but I don't like your size (brother wetin carry you come my side nah..) please hit the gym immediately (go register nah.. if nah you I dey work for).
I tried to make you, yes you laugh today but please always be a source of joy to yourself. No one has the right to tell you when to be happy, when to be sad, when to play, when to add weight, when to loose weight. You are the sole proprietor of your life, there is no share holder involved here, make your decisions and stand by them. You are beautifully and wonderfully made my dear.
As for me, my body (it is banging), my shape, my size remains my pride so no one can talk down on me or make me hate what I look like. Am beautifully and fearfully made..
Next post tomorrow!!!!
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| what I look like now!!!!! |
Some people don't even know there is an after effect to these things and they just say whatever and move on. I once had an encounter with a friend's friend (you needed to see this brother oo, he looked very unkept), and it was an experience that I won't forget soon. I got introduced to this guy by my friend (I won't mention her name so don't bother) cause she was trying to get me a boyfriend and decided to hook me up with her old time friend (rada rada re oo).
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| Larhde's size in 2016 |
If there is anything I learnt from Covenant University it is how to give cute side hugs (full hug in public could get you into the SDC bus... Only CU students and graduates can relate sha); so I gave this uncle a side hug and his first comment was "but Oyin, are you scared to hug me?" I said no (The question irritated me but I kept my cool). Then as if he was on a codeine diet, he went ahead to spoil everything when he said "is it because of your size?" and I smiled and said "what is wrong with my size?" (nah the response burst my head pass). I was ready to give him hot hot when he said "but you are fat Oyin, Orobo like you"(haaaa, were re oo). I looked and smiled and my response was simple and precise. Oga, before you start insulting fat and pretty ladies like me, I think you should look at yourself and know where you got it wrong because it is very obvious you have missed it in life (jaw dropped). I turned to my friend and told her, babes I respect you a lot if not .............. (I end am there make I fit win the matter nah) and immediately left the venue.
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| Me in 2015 |
Away from gist now, am not criticising anyone please don't get me wrong but my body, shape and size remains my pride. The way I look at the moment shouldn't be your headache instead advice me to stay healthy. Do you know it is possible to use the gym daily and still be chubby but physically fit? (some people don't know) In all, I think we should all try not to intimidate people with their body size or shape.
Am plus sized am not fat, am beautiful and I got a banging body so if you think have added too much weight in recent times be polite about your approach (no be you dey help me live my life nah) and you would be surprise I would listen to your advice, The one that weakens me is when a guy is trying to woo a lady and he says babe, I like you so much but I don't like your size (brother wetin carry you come my side nah..) please hit the gym immediately (go register nah.. if nah you I dey work for).
I tried to make you, yes you laugh today but please always be a source of joy to yourself. No one has the right to tell you when to be happy, when to be sad, when to play, when to add weight, when to loose weight. You are the sole proprietor of your life, there is no share holder involved here, make your decisions and stand by them. You are beautifully and wonderfully made my dear.
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| Me in 2014 |
As for me, my body (it is banging), my shape, my size remains my pride so no one can talk down on me or make me hate what I look like. Am beautifully and fearfully made..
Next post tomorrow!!!!
Nice one dearie, Someone out there really need this cos I remember growing up and facing all the harsh comments from people, hearing words like Agric and orobo was so heart breaking that I started starving myself and taking all kinds of slimming pills, tea and herbal mixture. Now I have ulcer that won't give me the full joy I deserve since when I got to understand that we all can't be skinny, slim, curvy or have that banging body. I love Me and I won't trade me for another, I am Big, Bold and Beautiful������������
ReplyDeleteAwwww... Thank you so much baby.. I love your shape and size.. I love who you are hun
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